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May 25, 2026The Sea Turtle: Love is in the Preparation (Reptile)
The first time I saw a mama sea turtle nesting, I was simply wowed. Then I joined a turtle walk at Loggerhead MarineLife Center, right down the beach from me, and had the joy and thrill of learning so much about these magnificent animals while we waited for the radio call: OK, there's a turtle beginning to nest — come on down!
What we witnessed was breathtaking.
This 250-plus pound mama loggerhead had dragged herself up the beach and dug a perfect egg chamber a couple of feet deep using only her small rear flippers. She was now in a trance, focused solely on dropping around 100 perfect, golf-ball-sized eggs into what would be their home for the next 60 days.
Having done this childbirth thing myself, I was full of admiration for the adaptations that have kept these ladies reproducing for over 100 million years. That trance likely spares her the full weight of the pain and keeps her focused. I mean, come on moms — would you lay 3 to 7 nests like this most summers for the rest of your life if you fully felt each of those eggs squeezing through?!
Once she finishes, she wakes from her trance, uses her flippers to gently refill the chamber with sand, and then spends considerable time and energy camouflaging her nest so predators cannot find it. Clearly exhausted, she drags herself back to the sea, never to meet her offspring. Truly, it's probably a good thing for her motivation to never meet them — the odds of a hatchling reaching adulthood are steep. So many predators, such fragile and delicious prey.
What I've come to witness, beyond the spectacle, is the staggering intentionality of each mama's effort. She has likely traveled thousands of miles from her wintering grounds back to her natal beach — the same beach where she was born. Then she often false crawls, sensing that something isn't quite right, and returns to the ocean to try again later or another day. She will not settle for a spot that doesn't feel ideal.

After spending the past year volunteering at Loggerhead to help rehabilitate injured turtles, I can tell you without any hesitation: sea turtles are sentient. They have moods, opinions, and distinct relationships with their caretakers and each other. What I witness on that beach is not mere instinct. I believe it is love.
The mama sea turtle never gets the reunion moment. There is no hug, no recognition, no witness to all she gave. What she has is what she did — every mile traveled, every false crawl, every grain of sand carefully placed. That is her love. It lives in the preparation.
And here, on Mother's Day — when so many of us are far from the ones we mother, whether children, family, friends, or the more-than-human beings we've come to love — I want to offer this: love is in the preparation.
The moments we express love in person rest on a long trail behind them — years, sometimes generations, of showing up, doing the work, making the hard choices, all driven by love. That love energy does not disappear when we are not in the same room. It is always there, quietly present, waiting to be noticed.
Look for it. Pay attention to it. Honor it.
Thank you, sea turtle, for teaching me that.
What are you preparing right now, with love, for someone who may never fully know all you gave?
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